61 13... Connector housing, LCC contact (load current contact)

Socket housing: 

Press lock (1) with suitable tool (2) in direction of arrow out of socket housing (3).

Fig 1: Pressing Lock With Suitable Tool

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Pull lock (1) out of socket housing (2).

Fig 2: Pulling Lock Of Socket Housing

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Insert special tool 61 0 317 into socket housing (1) and pull out wiring with LCC contact (2) in direction of arrow.

Fig 3: Identifying Socket Housing And LCC Contact

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Pin housing: 

Unlock locking slide (1) of pin housing (2) with suitable tool (3) in direction of arrow.

Fig 4: Identifying Locking Slide Of Pin Housing

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Insert special tool 61 0 317 into pin housing (1) and pull out wiring with LCC contact (2) in direction of arrow.

Fig 5: Identifying Pin Housing And LCC Contact

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