61 13... Inline plugs, 6-, 8- pin, System MQS
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Press lock (1) in direction of arrow and slide plug forward.
Press locking hook (2) downward and slide lock (1) out.
Press down arrester hook (1) with screwdriver and pull out cable with contact towards rear.